[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.brandel.cz\/proc-se-nesnazime-budovat-vztahy\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.brandel.cz\/proc-se-nesnazime-budovat-vztahy\/","headline":"Pro\u010d se nesna\u017e\u00edme budovat vztahy?","name":"Pro\u010d se nesna\u017e\u00edme budovat vztahy?","description":"Budov\u00e1n\u00ed vztah\u016f je b\u011bh na dlouhou tra\u0165, a nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, zda jde o vztah partnersk\u00fd, sourozeneck\u00fd, pracovn\u00ed, nebo o dal\u0161\u00ed typy vztah\u016f v rodin\u011b. Pr\u00e1v\u011b vztahy v rodin\u011b dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed \u010dasto na frak na\u0161\u00edm jedn\u00e1n\u00edm, nebo i nejedn\u00e1n\u00edm. H\u00e1daj\u00ed se rodi\u010de mezi sebou, d\u011bti s rodi\u010di, samoz\u0159ejm\u011b i rodi\u010de s d\u011btmi. A h\u00e1dkami a nez\u00e1jmem […]","datePublished":"2021-11-29","dateModified":"2023-04-26","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.brandel.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.brandel.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/91506ed60e31abe586276a3e1420719df081581a820344a28fa2034bb1a2fe22?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/91506ed60e31abe586276a3e1420719df081581a820344a28fa2034bb1a2fe22?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"brandel.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.brandel.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/team-spirit-g6861670de_1280.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.brandel.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/team-spirit-g6861670de_1280.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.brandel.cz\/proc-se-nesnazime-budovat-vztahy\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":490,"articleBody":"Budov\u00e1n\u00ed vztah\u016f je b\u011bh na dlouhou tra\u0165, a nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, zda jde o vztah partnersk\u00fd, sourozeneck\u00fd, pracovn\u00ed, nebo o dal\u0161\u00ed typy vztah\u016f v rodin\u011b. Pr\u00e1v\u011b vztahy v rodin\u011b dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed \u010dasto na frak na\u0161\u00edm jedn\u00e1n\u00edm, nebo i nejedn\u00e1n\u00edm. H\u00e1daj\u00ed se rodi\u010de mezi sebou, d\u011bti s rodi\u010di, samoz\u0159ejm\u011b i rodi\u010de s d\u011btmi. A h\u00e1dkami a nez\u00e1jmem o n\u00e1pravu po\u0161ramocen\u00e9ho vztahu doch\u00e1z\u00ed k neslu\u010diteln\u00fdm postoj\u016fm, kter\u00e9 pramen\u00ed \u010dasto a\u017e v konec jak\u00e9hokoliv kontaktu.Hled\u00e1me chyby v jin\u00fdch. Je nejsnaz\u0161\u00ed se z probl\u00e9mu vymanit t\u00edm, \u017ee zastaneme p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee my jsme nikde chybu neud\u011blali. Jsou skute\u010dn\u011b lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed nikdy za sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor nebo jedn\u00e1n\u00ed nep\u0159evzali odpov\u011bdnost, a co h\u016f\u0159 – pokud t\u00edm vznikl probl\u00e9m, nikdy neuznali chybu a za sv\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed se neomluvili. Jsou to lid\u00e9 sobe\u010dt\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010deni o tom, \u017ee u nich chyba nen\u00ed. A to ani kdyby jim to \u0159eklo n\u011bkolik lid\u00ed z\u00e1rove\u0148.Od probl\u00e9m\u016f ut\u00edk\u00e1me. Za\u017eil to asi ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s – kdy\u017e n\u011bco nechceme \u0159e\u0161it nebo m\u00e1me pocit, \u017ee n\u011bco \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed nem\u00e1, d\u011bl\u00e1me, \u017ee to neexistuje. A ka\u0161leme na to. Jen\u017ee tento postoj u vztah\u016f nen\u00ed moc vhodn\u00fd.Ignorujeme pot\u0159eby a postoje jin\u00fdch. Nikdy se nikdo neshodne na 100 % ve v\u0161em s dal\u0161\u00edmi lidmi. Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor na v\u00fdchovu, na j\u00eddlo, vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed, bydlen\u00ed, zkr\u00e1tka na v\u0161echno. Opa\u010dn\u00fd n\u00e1zor ale neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee je \u0161patn\u00fd. N\u00e1zor je toti\u017e n\u00e1zor a nem\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt ani dobr\u00fd ani \u0161patn\u00fd. T\u00edm sp\u00ed\u0161, kdy\u017e jde o n\u00e1zor na rodinn\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti.Trucov\u00e1n\u00ed a ur\u00e1\u017een\u00ed se. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee toto je dominantou \u017een. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b i u mu\u017e\u016f lze naj\u00edt ty, kte\u0159\u00ed se um\u00ed po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b urazit. \u010cek\u00e1me tak, \u017ee ten druh\u00fd si uv\u011bdom\u00ed svou chybu a bude se ji sna\u017eit napravit. Jednou, dvakr\u00e1t to mo\u017en\u00e1 zafunguje. Pokud ale tento postup budete opakovat pravideln\u011b, doc\u00edl\u00edte jedin\u011b toho, \u017ee druh\u00e1 strana za\u010dne na opl\u00e1tku ignorovat v\u00e1s. A t\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem je\u0161t\u011b nikdo nic nevy\u0159e\u0161il.V\u0161ichni po\u0159\u00e1d \u010dteme a sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee komunikace je z\u00e1klad. Je to pravda, ale m\u00e1lokdo si to uv\u011bdom\u00ed, a\u017e se dostane do konfliktu. Jeden prost\u011b mus\u00ed m\u00edt v\u00edce rozumu a d\u00e1t ego stranou a sna\u017eit se vykomunikovat co nejv\u00edc. Rodinu m\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk toti\u017e jen jednu, a tak \u0161arv\u00e1tky kv\u016fli blbostem nestoj\u00ed za to, aby se v\u0161ichni rozh\u00e1dali a u\u017e spolu nikdy nepromluvili.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        5\/5 - (1 vote)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pro\u010d se nesna\u017e\u00edme budovat vztahy?","item":"https:\/\/www.brandel.cz\/proc-se-nesnazime-budovat-vztahy\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]